How to get through break ups
Let’s be real for a second: breakups suck. When we split from our night in shining armor, we feel like the world is crashing down. We really thought he was the one, and now here we are in our castles sitting on our thrones wondering if we will ever have a king by our side. Coming from a woman’s perspective, I believe one of the biggest fears for our gender is not being able to find the one that we’ve always dreamt of. But here’s a thought: why must we seek when we should be found?
If you haven’t heard, it was announced on Saturday that singer Miley Cyrus and actor Liam Hemsworth decided to split after nine years of dating and eight months of marriage. Before they made the decision to tie the knot, the couple took a break from each other in 2014 during Miley’s most successful time in her career. During her peak, Miley took the chance to find herself and learn who she truly is. “I guess that’s what I’m still doing—trying on identities and seeing what fits.”
To all of my ladies (and occasional gentlemen who may read this), breakups are one of the hardest obstacles in life that we have to go through, but that doesn’t mean we should allow it to take a toll on us. The best part about being single is being able to devote more time and love into you and figuring out what makes you the happiest. If it is a long walk in the park or a Sunday brunch mimosa, TREAT YOURSELF. YOU DESERVE IT! It’s important to always consider yourself as your own priority. The right one will come along with time. Patience is key.
